Black Women’s Comments about American Black Men

These are black women’s comments about American black men and how they prefer white men. I had to stop after HOURS of copying comments. It was too much and too late for me.

Note: I am in no way blaming either males or females, although now that you know the Truth, what are you going to do about it???

https://ourfreesociety.com/solutions-to-take-down-the-evils/

The evils did this to us, and if you are a zombie and don’t care about the Truth, move along, this won’t matter to you, you will accept all of it. sigh

https://ourfreesociety.com/Odysee-The-Destruction-of-Men-Playlist

SO NO ATTACKING ME FOR THE TRUTH!

These are comments from a video from 7 years ago, so from November 2018. See here…

It’s mainly about black women who date or marry white men. Wow, I didn’t know there were so many.

I knew American black men had a bad reputation, but I didn’t know it was this bad or that black women even talked about it.

There is the odd black man’s comment below.

As I was copying all of this months ago, and yes, I was very tired, I started to think that this whole thing is once AGAIN a method to, take down the white race.

Several white men in the comments now want black women. SMH

If black women take away white men, that means there’s less men for white women. Plus the interracial element.

The reason I wanted to upload this video is because I never thought deeply about why I get very angry at men who are weak.

I have always become a bitch when they act like babies who need a mommy figure, and I have to do everything because he’s too stupid and/or very insecure. Unfortunately since I took alternative therapy, shed some childhood trauma and became emotionally stronger and less insecure, I always seem to draw those weak men to me, and I hate it.

Saying that, even before I took the therapy this happened, so it’s just my energy since I was kicked out of the house at 18 and had to fend for myself. Plus I never got love as a child and was constantly abused, which usually means you have to grow up very fast.

This can be said for hundreds of thousands of children and then they grow up to be adults.

https://ourfreesociety.com/alternative-therapy-courses/

This explains EVERYTHING, and I’m shocked I never figured it out before.

The evils destroyed men and made them into weak feminine males who aren’t REAL men anymore. And I’m not talking about muscle mass, but also energy and emotional maturity.

Back in the 50s, most boys had to start working at the age of 12, so it gave them character and inner strength. I read this from a man on Quora.

Every person who is on the spectrum even if a little bit, is weak in a myriad of ways and that was the whole point. WEAK MEN CAN’T FIGHT BACK or protect anyone, let alone themselves!

Did you know that tons of men have small penises and I don’t mean the average size of 5-7″? I don’t even know what year this started, but it must have been around the 90s. I have a video in the men’s playlist, and she probably says the year. I don’t remember.

I knew this was an issue around 2017 before I found out the REASON years later.

The evil PC BS, censoring the Truth, telling everyone they can’t speak their mind, and the new age cult is also responsible for this.

https://odysee.com/@OurFreeSociety:2/New-Age-Bullshit-And-The-Suppression-Of-The-Sacred-Masculine—Extended-Video-Podcast-Edition:9

Every time I go onto evil reddit I upset someone and if it’s about me warning people about the Truth, sure, maybe they can be shocked and bully me, but even when I’m not talking about the Truth I’m bullied FOR NO REASON AT ALL. Reddit is a prime example of mainstream society, especially sub Humans under the age of 40.

Even women 35+ attacked me in the fashion group.

https://ourfreesociety.com/evil-reddit/

Many men are sissy males and there were very few of them in the 90s, so from then until now, this evilness has EXPLODED.

They start cross dressing, and many want to be females and take the leap to becoming evil transgender and this isn’t just younger males, but also men in their 70s and some were like this even as a child.

Even if she doesn’t understand what was going on, a woman automatically would hate and resent him for being that way because he’s not a REAL MAN.

This means she now has to play the male role in the relationship, as well as her own feminine role.

Women just want to be feminine and taken care of so she can love and appreciate him and take care of him in a feminine way and this video helped me to see that. I think I knew this years ago, but forgot about it and now I have a much clearer picture.

I’ve ALWAYS wanted a strong intelligent man and I never got one.

This also means there won’t be anyone there to protect women, which is the role of the men. Women would be left vulnerable.

I figured that out when writing up this article, but now it’s even more clear in my mind what is going on. https://ourfreesociety.com/how-men-are-abused-by-women/

Whether women were becoming men or became masculine due to the sissy men, that I don’t know yet.

I just heard a story about how a woman was raped in the 90s in her University. She got drunk and passed out, and 7-8 older boys raped her and were laughing about it.

I’ve heard this story before, but never from someone who got the story first hand.

I’m sure this happens all of the time, and I’m sure feminine men are also raped by alpha POS type males. sigh

Was this an issue in University back in the 50s-80s? I really want to know.

Men will then hate woman due to their own desire for the women to be controlling, and I’m pretty sure this is an epidemic now. And women would hate men because they didn’t have a strong energy and can’t and don’t protect them. It would be a vicious circle.

I’m positive that in the fake awake community more women fought back when WWIII started in March 2020, then men did.

And women seem to still outnumber men in the fake awake community.

When I started compiling this article, I thought I lost the video or the evils burned it from my computer again. sigh

I don’t know, I had the thumbnail, but NO video which makes me think they did burn it.

I eventually remembered I found this on Odysee, not nazi YouTube. Then I remembered how I found this video. She interviewed that psychopath narcissist (I still have to upload it) so I found this video and will add it at the top, but keep this article to publish.

Here’s her channel, and it looks like she removed it from there too, because I don’t see it there. Maybe they forced her to take it down, I don’t know.

Here’s a video of two black guys ripping part of what she said to shreds, including where she was located during her video, and she panned too fast, but it looked sort of nice. That was immature BS attacking the resort she was at.

I can tell just in the first 20 minutes they don’t get some of it.

They think being a man is all about height and muscle mass. sigh I’m sure most black men have those traits, and yet if you read the women’s comments below, you read that the black men constantly make fun of them, put them down, tell them to be tough, act immature, etc.

Also, they blame the fact that black people aren’t rich like white people, although they do say many white people are poor.

Sure money makes almost everything easier, but if you want to make the relationship work, you will bend over backwards to do so. I have a great video I have to still upload about a woman in the 60s, I think it was, and she made it so her relationship with her husband was all he thought about.

There you can see her video in theirs, but I’m taking my evidence from the comments I copied from tons of black women, not just her video.

Also, I don’t have time to go through the comments from the two black men and paste them here, but what I did read, the women say similar things, not about dating white men, but also having to be a tomboy and be more masculine so she doesn’t get raped.

I didn’t even think about that, and I’m wondering if white women do the same thing.

At age 17, I put up more of a wall in school so I wouldn’t get hurt emotionally from all of the bullies, but I know many women gain weight to keep the pedos away. sigh

So abusing children, whether emotionally, physically, or sexually, HARMS EVERYONE!

These are the comments from her video

So true. I’ve always personally felt on guard, like my personal space was being invaded forcefully when I am approached by black males. And they can never take no for an answer either. I literally felt attacked with the over aggression. And the sense of entitlement to my attention, time, and space is incredibly off putting. To be feminine means you are truly able to be at ease and in a relaxed, peaceful mind space. So, when black males say that other women are more “feminine”, they’re really giving the ultimate compliment to those women’s men! Because for her to be feminine means her counterpart is truly masculine. He is the ultimate alpha because he has earned her, dare I say, “submission”. And what women seeking a partnership that makes her feel safe won’t start looking over yonder at those men? I know I sure am!Oh, and I forgot to add that I avoid white or other non black males that hang around a lot of black males, or are way into “black culture” like the plague. They tend to exhibit the same overly aggressive, sense of entitlement, pushy traits. They’re more concerned about what they can get out of you, instead of focusing on making you feel comfortable and at ease at your own pace. So beware of these kinds of men too ladies!
I encountered 3 bm yesterday (only bc I was being cheap so of course there’s a lot of blacks there). 2 of them answered my question sarcastically even though it’s their job to answer questions and a tried to get my attention by handing my a scrap piece of paper like a 3 year old (mind you, just seconds earlier he was chatting up a Latina and making the effort to produce conversation.) This is how they behave. It’s a constant reminder to avoid them at all costs.
You are finding you always have deserved respect & consideration to be befreined & admired & even loved by men who were raised to care for women Not abuse them like so many emotionaly & mentally j financially 😠 angry, sick & broken & jealous black men. hey are deeply rooted in a sad low level value systems & thinking j lowest on the social pole of statistics for sucess & being traditional or family oriented or consistently & well employed. It’s true for generations to now.A good man who is kind & fun, hard working & wants a future family with a wife he will treat good & rise kids together & protect you as you deserve. A responsible happy man to have in your life & possibly find as a future mate. You nor any of us great, precious black ladies should put up with abuse verbal or physical or our core self esteem being under minded or attack like a evil game with an evil purpose. Life is Not about taking in needless insults from hayersnif any gender or color. Your not here to be devalued by some sorry black men, KKK or others so they try to keep you from loving your self & knowing you can & should have a good life & standards & good respectful love too. Black male low self esteem & need to control & put black women who are educated & prosperous more in numbers then them & don’t need their issues & attacks in our lives j it isn’t just a joke or ok. the black men’s & some of his pick me’s who bow down to these men foolishly have too much anger & jealousy.When black men are not keeping up with us or other races in society we don’t have to be bullied to help them feel better about how they loose in life. He means to hurt shame & control as he swings at us cause he can’t defeat & control white men. He can’t take other race of men’s choices to desire USB admire USB respect us & also befriend date love & marry us great black women more than ever at this time in history. When ever We black women win at any thing in life, they want to crash it sadly for their sad low ego status.. Stay being blessed by God for your good life any way & keep winning & discovering your power to 💘 love & have sucess in all areas in life in spite of any hater!!!😊😀😘🎈🎊🎈
I have been victimized and humiliated by black men all my life (some of them my relatives) this has made me feel on guard all the time. I met a white guy a few months now and I have never felt so relaxed … I have nothing to counteract therefore no defensive stance
My true femininity got snatched away at 10 years old when I was at the store with my family and a bm, holding his child, attempted to talk to me. Sure he got cussed out by my mom but it definitely stayed with me. This was also followed up with other situations after 10 that just made me uncomfortable. I didn’t want to wear dresses, shorts or anything that showcased myself in any way that could be deemed attractive. I am trying to bring myself back to life and hopefully, with my renewed sense of self and femininity, I can finally surround myself with men who truly protect.
N- Ing You are sooooooo right i promise you are i may not know you but you are speaking facts!! i really want to start dating white men around my age im 26. and its scary to think of even trying it. ive never been “serious” with one outside of high school flings basically. im so tired of having serious relationships or “ so called” cause honestly they (black men) make you feel like just a piece of meat or “another chick”, and then find myself once again being “controlled”, because thats all i have found is controlling black men they start off great then boom!! its like i cant break the cycle. my mother always ask me why truth is idk i don’t attract these types on purpose i dont even go “looking”. I just want to start over, and try out a different race…..im so tired. idk where to start
It is because we are free to be ourselves. We don’t have to carry the expectations of a whole race of people we can just BE! I LOVE IT! It is what life is supposed to be like without the rest of the BS you get on the regular.
I noticed this so much in my self. I was dating a black guy who was quite aggressive and I feel like it brought it out in me a lot . I got with a white man who had the kindest and softest personality and was very bubbly and I felt I was just so much more happier and feminine . I have seen and felt that pattern very often
I don’t like overly aggressive men. That’s a turn off for me. I want a man who works, provides financial support, and treats me right. There’s nothing wrong in showing love.
Im black I love my Latino husband. Alot of black men are damaged tbh
Some of these black men are like children. They want to ensure they are not doing more work than everybody else. To busy being selfish to know that being a protector, provider and maintainer is the natural order of things.
My hubby is asian and I’ve had a black guy approach us and ask why I’m not with a brother while out at a farmers market 😂 I’m not black american though so before we moved to America, my dad told me to stay away from american black men. I’m happy I heeded his warning or I probably would be a single mother.
I recall watching two BM react to this video and they really irritated me. They kept saying why did ‘she’ have to make this about race. To ask that is to go against the title of the damn video. Ofc she has to make it about race so that you can get the point. To take that away is to take away the accountability that a lot of BM don’t want to have. Come on, ppl need to be honest with themselves.
Thanks to you, I now have a clue as to the SPECIFIC reason, why more so than anyone else, black MEN have consistently given me the hardest time re my interracial marriage. The same men who would not have been interested in dating me when I was single now give me so much attitude when they know who I’m married to. Mind you, they are perfectly pleasant to my HUSBAND. Me? Stank face. (Especially the younger ones. Like… I’m 50! REALLY?!)
I think it’s also because black men “holla” at you like animals to get you to look. It’s quite annoying,so I think we act masculine to show where not interested idk. I also feel it’s because other race of men are known to settle down and start a family and STAY so it brings the feminine out of us like it’s supposed to we show that we can soft loving caring etc.Its crazy but when I’m around certain black men I feel I have be hard to show I’m not interested like I have to show I’m mean(most of them still like that) vs when I’m around my boyfriend and his friends I’m very soft and smiling I do feel more secure he doesn’t want me to be his mother he wants me to be his Girlfriend (soon wife) and that’s it he doesn’t want me to protect him etc he wants to do all the protection and take lead and I love it. This is my first interracial relationship it’s completely different dating black men I had to be his mother and raise him tell him what not to do what to do give him money protect him etc just a struggle love.
Binging your vids now and I want to say this before even watching.
While I don’t generalize, my two most recent relationships, the first was with a black man and my current relationship is with a European man. Both were/are hardworking and very attractive but my ex, the black man, if I got frustrated and cried he would say things like“Stop that, act like a G! It’s rough in these streets.”Now my current beau if I angry cry, he just lets me and domestic make me feel like I’m losing my mind. My European bf doesn’t make me feel deficient for showing emotions. This is why I could be more feminine with him. Because he gives me the room to do so. There is no expectation that I have to be “tough.”
That’s a really good point. Growing up (in the UK). I would go out to clubs, events and never really felt that secure around black guys. I had three elder brothers and was more masculine in my mindset and behaviour, because I had to be.It didn’t help that I was also subject to catcalling as well. So wouldn’t make eye contact with unknown black guys and then was criticised for being “uptight” “rude” and “unfriendly”!It’s a lot to do with being rather introverted and sensitive too. It’s hard to be like that in Western Africa and in the African diaspora, for both men and women.
I have dated mostly black men and felt unsafe with most of them in one way or another (Sexually, emotionally, spiritually, physically and financially). The one white guy I dated respected and cared for me even though I turned him down for sex/a relationship. However, literally all the other black guys I dated I had issues with on some level. One particularly abusive one I unfortunately was in a relationshit with tied several times make me feel insecure around other women and tried to talk to my “friend” behind my back. He also forced me to give him money, was sexually aggressive toward me and sexually assaulted me. A couple others were sexually aggressive toward me as well. All these experiences left me in an angry state (And before I started dating I was relatively happy and carefree), but now I feel some residual resentment for black men stewing beneath the surface.I currently have a few white male friends and the energy is definitely different. I haven’t dated any of them but they always make sure that I am safe, sometimes pay when we go out, and don’t do/say things that make me feel uncomfortable/unsafe. So, bottom line Chris, is that there is truth to what you’re saying. I wish I came across and binge watched your videos as early as four years ago. Currently working on reclaiming my femininity. I’ve missed me desperately
This is spot on. You can’t be feminine when you have to be the male and female of the household. No mind you a lot of women like this have a black man at home living with her. Or should I say another child. Share this video with Oshay Duke Jackson.
Facts!! Black men make my spirit feel ANGRY
thank you for reading. I just had to share because Christelyn is right. I didn’t realize why I stopped being feminine by the time high school ended. Blackistan told me I was a cry baby and that I was always “acting/talking white”. They TARGETED me for being girly. So everything CK said in this video hit home with me. They wanted me to continue to be feminine but not treat me the way a feminine woman needs to be treated.
Help me on this. im seriously wanting to start dating christian white men. im tired im so tired🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am glad that you made a video on this because I have seen many black men complain about black women being masculine. Why would she be feminine if her man is already playing that role?
I loved what you were talking about in reference towards black girls on the Southside of Chicago who will be (and are) targeted for expressing and indulging in her femininity. I stay in Chicago and have for the past 12 years but grew up in the northern suburbs of Chicagoland. I remember living on the Southside for a couple of years with roommates and being targeted by not only the men in the neighborhood as being vulnerable but also by the women in the neighborhood because I was, and always have been, very feminine and enjoyed my femininity. Not only can it make a young woman, or woman period, a target of vulnerability and a victim by many of the so-called men in these neighborhoods but also by extremely jealous, envious women in these same neighborhoods- no matter how much I do understand why they are they way they are, at 31, I’ve learned to stay away from them all. It’s a sad but necessary lesson to learn- you can never be too educated, too pretty, too feminine, or too smart in certain neighborhoods as a black woman because you’ll see how quickly you become a target. Love your channel 🥰🥰🥰
I could not agree more that BW are more relaxed and feminine with WM. I am of West African origin living in Europe. I have heard Black men in the corporate sector say things like ” I don’t greet black women at work because they have a certain attitude”. But the reality is we sometimes need to put up this ‘barrier’ as a defence mechanism because when a BW is courteous to BM they think ” she wants it” and they start exhibiting typical BM attitude.
I dated a bm and he said how come you don’t like to clean and cook,It’s a womans job you know..Am like no I saw my mom do it for years and it got her nowhereWe lived in Italy by that time and she will saved up to buy tickets for both me and my half brother and also herself to come to the US to visit my dad..He never gave her back a penny and once we here she will use her own money for groceries.. I always said to myself this ain’t love .
yup black women are forced to be masculine when they are with feminine black men lol
Exactly! I simply cannot afford to be soft and sweet when I’m surrounded by pushy guys who quickly become hostile. Especially knowing that more than likely I’ll have to fend for myself (I was 12 when this started happening to me). You can’t demand that the women be dainty flowers when the masculine culture barely has anything even resembling chivalry and is propped up by the anti-social tenets of a shamed and conquered patriarchy. It’s nice to be around men who understand subtlety and reciprocation. Men who don’t approach women like hungry wolves trying to scare up some compliance. I’m not feminine because of his race, I’m feminine because he’s an actual man and there’s a heart in his chest.
And BM tend to never call us beautiful or anything like that which is quite important to hear sometimes.
Gen Gen yes a lot of black men don’t like being adventurous like non black men too. Women we like a adventure.
Black men do not dote on theur women. But expect her to dote on THEM. They don’t nurture or feel protective of their woman, not just black men. Italians and other races too. Root cause, MATRIARCHAL societies!
In my experience, Italian men are pretty damn protective of their women folk sooo ….. >.> dunno what you heard lol.
Black men will try to shame you for being feminine, girly and taking care of yourself. I had a black boyfriend when I was about 15. I came to see him with one of my friends and he was with about ten of his friends. I had just had my hair done and said jokingly “don’t I look like Beyonce with my hair like this haha”…. He responded with “More like Fatonce hahaha”. In front of all his friends. They would call me Fatonce from that point on and I would always make sure I had a hat/hood on smh.
They always have side comments about hair, looks, make up etc. I used to get really self conscious as a young girl. Now I just dish it right back about they’re receding hairlines and bulging bellies lol.
A few months late. I am crying not sure why. Perhaps thinking. I know there are good black men, I know they are.. However, I have been on the receiving Ed of soo much hurt and pain from them. I have always been in support of Black love, I closed alot of options for me but i said never again. I want to be feminine hell, I am don’t want to be in competition mode, constantly having to ask if I can measure up. I remember being verbally abused by a black man and when I turned to the guy i was talking to then asking iohe would defend me he was like no, it does not concern me. I went all kick boxing defensive. I had to go and learn boxing to deal with the anger and know how to defend myself. I am glad experiences have made me a very compassionate and loving woman but I am starting to wonder if I really should ride for the whole pro black
Women should submit to a man who is leading them to a life of promise and unbound happiness, not to a man who is leading them to the jailhouse, courthouse, welfare line, abortion clinic, ER, or the grave. Its seems like alot of BM now have that whole “I don’t want you but don’t want anyone else to have you” mentality. From all the comments I’ve seen recently BM dont want marriage or kids but want a woman to commit their lives to them and behave like a wife for them. They want BW to be their moms, whores, and ATMs nothing more.
Wow, I usually totally disagree with most of your points of view. But this one makes complete sense. I was with a black man who railed against black female “masculine” behavior harshly, always making disparaging comments about black women who act “ghetto” and “tough”, and all the while he shamed me for being too soft and sensitive. As a result, being in that relationship hardened me. I am a different person now. I’m not going to go looking for a white man, but I do need to find a way back to my natural state of femininity.
I agree, remember, even black men have said this before. They have said they have to act tough all the time, because they are in tough places. You should treat these women like they are valued, and they will soften to you. People have to be as tough as their environment demands.
This explains why I’ve always been interested in guys outside my race. I’m a soft girly girl and naturally imitate people’s energy and sadly our culture is a very “masculine” one so I automatically feel the need to act more masculine around men of my own race cus I feel like I won’t be taken seriously like I’m a weak child or a “easy target” and I can tell by the way they behave around me. I wish our culture wasn’t this way. Even black women who are under the “masculine spell” (to feel secure) even treat me like I’m a kid like wake up! I shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable being my girly self in fear that I won’t be taken seriously!
I’mma be honest with everybody commenting on here. I agree that alot of black men have messed up ways but what about the black guys that are like me. I don’t treat my women bad, I open doors, tell women that it’s alr to be themselves around me and all but why is it that I still cannot get any of them to be feminine ! I cannt introduce myself & ask how y’all are doing without y’all having that “what do you want attitude” what am I missing ?
black women have to be the man in the relationship when they date black men,, because black dont want to be the man lol
In that case, stay single and always remember: “I can do BAD all by myself!!”
A friend sent me a link to this video. I watched the whole thang with interest.I’ve heard the obverse of what I understand to be the central premise of this video: bruthas who consciously check for non-sistahs because, from their perspective, non-sistahs are “more feminine”, and are therefore more attractive (worthy?) for selection as potential mates. They can, and do, cite chapter and verse of the interpersonal difficulty of dealing with “black women” (like “black men”, evidently a monolith worthy of broad generalization).I call bullshit on all that. I’m a firm believer that people’s pairing/mating choices correlate directly with what they think they deserve, which is predicated on what they think they “are”.I can’t speak for women in general, but in consideration of the women in my social sphere, their sense of personal feminine “self” doesn’t seem to hinge on the presence, provision, affirmation of, or “abdication” to, any man of any race. Again, this is only a subjective guess, and judging from some of the responses on this thread, I may well be wrong.There are certainly points made in this video that are worthy of consideration and not summary dismissal, but if we’re speaking in terms of “maybes”, maybe there are some women might want to consider that their essential “energy”, “feminine” or not, isn’t attracting male attention, period. Speaking personally, there are some people, irrespective of gender, that I avoid because they have a toxic “vibe”.
My position doesn’t stem from kneejerk defensiveness, but it’s real easy for this issue to result in “which came first, the chicken or the egg?” circular arguments.
There are enough mutual pathologies within black men and women, let alone the prospect of black man/woman pairing, borne out of our respective immersion in an environment that works against our psychological health, for everyone to take some personal responsibility for whatever behaviors are brought to the table.
Effective problem solving doesn’t require assignment of blame to others, and taking responsibility for personal choices and their connection to personal destiny, without assigning responsibility for them to other people, in particular, other people’s “deficiencies” is what people who REALLY own THEMSELVES, do.
One brutha’s perspective.
Michelle – that’s because she doesn’t understand Energy.
People react to their environment and the people around them. This is human nature 101. A positive environment and interactions bring out the best in people.Michelle – as I always say, you are the company you KEEP! The white men usually live in better areas, so that’s also why.
I’m Spanish European. So not exactly white but close. But this women is completely right. Very well done video Madam. In my own experience masculinity is being replaced with fragile male masculinity which is fake masculinity. Women can tell the difference. At least, the women I give importance to. I like my women soft and tender. More tender than a piece of filet mignon. Loyal and clean and decent and fiercely loyal. But with a warrior women side too, unlike a snowflake queen, who can stand beside me in a fight. I’ve dumped quite a few that attempted to cross my lines and boundaries. You know, the super human feminists or the miners/gold diggers or black widow types. But there’s also the snake women too who play submissive to manipulate. I dump those too. But I found an American black one that has no red flags and passed all my discrete tests. Glad to see a video that speaks the truth on the masculinity and femininity dilemma here in Europe and there in America…. Especially in America.
Loved the simple explanation. It is innate to women to want to feel safe, protected and of value. Men thrive on being a provider, a protector, and in “possession” of something of great worth. GOD made it that way,, so that men and women could be One. Everything that you’ve shared I’ve experienced. My desire has been for a White husband since childhood, before it became fashionable. I have always assumed that I would be better loved and cared for if my man was White. It’s unfortunate that many Black men refuse to take their place. They prefer to abdicate their position by insisting that Black women care and protect them. I appreciate that I have the freedom and option to choose.🌷
I will say some of the things you said were on point and I am a black male. I do have to bring up the point and you think on this. All women regardless of race don’t know how to act like ladies and it has nothing to do with how there treated by black men, it had to do with how they were raised. I also want to say you are a very classy lady and that comes thru in your video’s, with that being said don’t act like all women will act feminine just because they are treated well. All women don’t have class regardless of race, just like there are many different types of men with no class. But the whole if she’s treated right she will act my feminine is bullshit. She sém to think all the black wome n in this country have the class and grace you display is a myth. There are black women who don’t appreciate what you do for them and act entitled just like a lot of black men. Make no mistake I agree with a lot of what your saying, but as a conservative black male. I have seen complete ignorance from black women because how they were raised and a couple more things. I don’t have a problem with black women with white men. My sister is married to a great guy and he happens to be white but it seems to me by your videos and comments that other black women are stating is that you have had bad experiences with black men and think that narrative fits all black men. That’s just feeding in to stereotypes. Don’t forget black women and black men have been sterotyed as being aggressive, loud and many other things and that doesn’t happen just because of who you were dating. Peace!
I hate that this is true but it is. I’ve dated black men in the past but my current long term boyfriend is white (technically mixed but mostly white) and ever since being with him, I’ve become a lot more feminine.
I’ve always been feminine my whole life but I’ve become extra feminine. My BF does treat me like a princess and he provides financial security so I feel safe and loved. And he’s the most masculine man I’ve been with.He always vocalizes he likes seeing me wear dresses and heels. He also buys me jewelry (which I never wore before being with him) and says he likes my natural beauty more than anything.I totally agree with your talking points and appreciated your take on it!
PrincessLeah187 xx just tag #whitemenare on IG and then tag #blackmenare and look at the results, that’s what propaganda of hate for white men is about in the world today and how the media tries to present a black man. Also IG blocked one black girl for posting pics with her white bf, black guys asked to block her for it and called her boyfriend racist names
While I agree that it is hard to be feminine without the feeling of security, I do not believe that only non-black men would resolved this issue. I think being with a GOOD MAN will resolve that issue. I know that first hand because I know no one more feminine than my Black mother, and that was because my Black father handled business and left her nothing to worry about.
I’m all for treating a lady like a lady. I open doors, I pull out chairs at restaurants and make sure her well being is okay. A man role is to make sure he is a protector of his lady. He is responsible for being a one woman man. He is responsible for his character. If a Black Woman is feminine around White Men; well it’s time for us Black men to step up and be men. I’m glad was raised by my mom after my father tragic death at the age of 2; but she made sure I was mentored by strong men; yes they were White mainly because her brothers wasn’t involved in my life Much.So yes I was raised by my mom but I learned to be a man by two men. I’m now successful because of these men. I love feminine women and have no issues with Black Women rejecting me but it won’t be because of my unfair treatment of them.
Wow this makes sooooo much sense..I dated a white guy in my 20s and I didnt realize how comfortable I was with him..it was rare I felt comfortable with a black guy..I just thought I was a mean defensive bitch..I just felt unsafe
You didn’t feel comfortable with the black man because in the world we live in consciously or subconsciously you know that he can’t provide you with what you want because this is not his world at this point you felt comfortable with the white man because right now this is his world he’s runing things so of course your gonna fell comfortably with him, well at least subconsciously anyway. You black women on here stop being so naive it’s making you seem very unintelligent
I can concur with this to an extent. As a tall, athletic black man who’s been told that I “act white” by other blacks growing up, I have noticed that when I visit my cousins in the hood, the black women tend to look at me like a celebrity because I don’t act like the other black dudes. I don’t have a lot of hood in me but I can throw down if I need to.However, on the flip side of that, and here’s where it gets a bit sad for the black women who are looking for “good black men.” Us, good black men are still attracted to femininity. When I say, “attracted,” this means that if you aren’t feminine, we probably won’t even look your way to begin with unless you put yourself in our view and make the first move. And between men and women, good men aren’t afraid to be masculine all the time, just being ourselves. It’s sad that black women have to flip the switch between masculine and femininity as this video purports. But that’s a problem men like me don’t have deal with. We have choices and options. Believe me when I say that a woman who “flips the switch” like that are red flags. Like I said. Attraction. We’re attracted to the femininity. But the minute you start coming at me like another dude, that attraction goes out the window and men aren’t willing, nor do they have to put up with that. The solution…Get out of the hood and these urban areas so you don’t have to practice these dual personality traits. Flush that hood out of your system and just be a loving, nurturing female. But no matter what you do, be honest with yourself. So when things go right or wrong, you’re responsible for you.
I’m here to listen. It’s hard. I’m gritty g my teeth on some of the comments but I’m here to listen. I’m not here to name call. I find value in looking at both sides. I’m hearing that when a man truly acts in his masculine nature the women will be more in her feminine. It’s unfortunate that from what your saying black women may have a propensity to be more in the feminine when a white male is around and have more of a judgemental wall when a black male is around. I think black men have been given a bad rep in this regard and I dont think it helps our community. But I do understand black women ha e a need for safety, security and to feel special and for some reasons they dont feel some black men exude that. Its unfortunate. We need better codes of conduct to be taught earlier to young men. Let’s not put eachother down but lift eachother up!
The reason is because the men allow us to. Black men are very feminine. I have rarely met masculine black men. There are non in my family as well.
Finally the truth!!!! I think when you come from rough urban areas, males and females are more focused on survival. So urban men often put themselves in the same ranking of a female. Thats why dates are split or the man won’t cover the bill on dinner dates at all (mom issues); they don’t have the financial stability to feel good about treating prospective loves. And if by any chance they do; you OWE them BIG. Financially stable men have the luxury of spending and not feeling hurt by it. Hence security and feeling feminine in those arms. Thank you Hollywood.
Yes We Black Men has issues trying to do for Our Women in this Country but some of Us Men just don’t even bother trying. But it’s also really sad that some of Our Queens ending up either dating & marrying white men for love & support. But I really thank God for motivative Brothers like Our late great Brother Charles Tyler & Expat Kings & other Youtube Brothers who been motivating Us Black Men to travel overseas to find the Love that We want that We Black Men really can’t or may not be able get in the Matrix Amerika We are really appreciate overseas but We must be careful because there’s always Pros & Cons when dealing with overseas Women They can be just as scandaless as Our Women here in the Matrix USA!
BM for the most part don’t case because being man have more options in the dating pool because just being functional BM no matter what his income level can still a women of any backaround up down and side ways. The only problem I have about what you said is not all BM live on the south side . There are millions who live on the North Side , NE side are doing very well for themselves and choose not to date BW for the all reason you give . The only men I know that show their outward masculinity is Hispanic men and yet I dont see many of them with BW infact t for the most would not think of dating a BW because they don’t see BW as soft as Latina who most if all not the work that home , the men are hard workers in what ever they do and their women are okay with it but BM who on the ball know matter his income is not given the same benefits as a WM and can provide to be real most BW seek BW financial gains because unlike WM BW men will never have access to the same financial resources that’s just who American is run. So to say WM AM MEM are the only one’s who can make a BW fell the need to let her hair down and be a full women is what BM say about BW because will not put in the same work for a BM than a WM with anything being equal . Because anything black is to be questioned no matter your zip code , income ,or education. BW will get more hate from other WP than from a BM when seen with a WM .
I agree with this viewpoint 100%. There are good black men and good black women, and it’s my assertion that women with the WGTOW mindset expressed in this video have reached this point after only interacting with certain types of BM. So BW, reject BM, BM reject BW…and where does it stop?Considering our history with the enemy, our unity has to be more important than our personal preferences and however long it takes to reach those preferences, has to be achieved with the black partners and no one else. There are many BW and BM who have given up on their culture, wondering if there’s even anything left to save. These are the ones who choose mates outside their race because they want to live on ‘easy mode’ and have the good life for a change where they don’t have to fight with their mate. Still, realizing that our viewpoints are increasing reflections of how we view each other are key to getting what we want from reach other. We cannot date outside or race and choose the WW or WM as our emotional scapegoat, while continuing to demand respect from each other. If hardship is our lot in life, so be it. I’d rather live that life and be true to the BW, than betray her by dating outside my race— she who, has already done so much. This is the mindset we must all share. There has to be cultural unity in all aspects and it had to have more importance than aspects like those expressed in this video otherwise, we’ll just be going in circles expecting the other to yield.
Most people never take into account the harsh environments a lot of us had to endure in childhood as well. You end up becoming more masculine than you would like as a defense mechanism. It can be hard to get out of it but its possible. I feel too masculine coming from a family as the older child without a dad in the home and a mother who wasnt available all the time. You compensate. You cant turn femininity on and off like a switch. When you grow up with a sense of being on edge and no one else looking out for you, it happens. I cant get my femininity back on my own though, still trying to cultivate it somehow
Christelyn you made alot of excellent points in this video. I especially like your last statement. I tend to see this topic from a slightly different angle however. I am a feminine black woman who appreciates a chivalrous & masculine man. I want a man in my life who knows how to play his role and honor mine. This man can be black, asian, white etc. It doesn’t matter as long as he knows how to honor my femininity. Though this should be simple to understand, it seems to be a lost concept to alot men in today’s society. I think that men from all backgrounds have lost this to some extent, though it will definitely appear to be stronger in some communities as opposed to others. People don’t realize that there have always been very feminine black women who appreciate more traditional roles. When I think of feminine black women I automatically think of women like Lupita N’yongo or Danai Gurira. Unfortunately I don’t think that many other people acknowledge their femininity. They might acknowledge their beauty or style, but not their femininity. Alot of people, especially men, are so busy projecting their own concept of what a black woman is, they fail to see who we are showing ourselves to be in the first place. So ultimately the issue is that men fail to see that all black women aren’t the same in every way. I think it will always be the case that feminine black women will choose masculine men. These women didn’t switch code, they’ve simply found a partner who is complementary to them. If that person is asian, white or whatever; so what? These women are just doing what has always come naturally to them.
No thought can be brought into existance without also bringing in it’s converse.the yin yang you speak of.we have an accord on that.if you are able to understand that flipping the script and inverting the roles is key in grasping healthy human connection…you may find that everything you posited about true femininity only springing forth from the presence of true masculinity applies and is/should be afforded to men to.true masculinity only springs forth in the presence of true femininity…using your terms.
I’m halfway through the video and I’m gonna finish but what jumps out at me is that again woman in general always put the responsibility on someone else. No body should influence how you conduct your self. If you are soft spoken feminine person your going to act that way. Also she made a comment dealing with growing up in inner cities and I say what abou the other black women who did not grow up there what is the excuse then. Last why would a woman put her self in a relationship where she doesn’t feel safe and secured in the first place
I watched the YouTube video a while back and a black woman in a Moroccan restaurant or middle eastern restaurant was assaulted it was a black man that was videoing the assault. He did not come to the woman’s help aid and first thing I thought of he probably was raised by a single mother who was very masculine so he didn’t feel any threat for the black woman that was in trouble and being beaten in a restaurant in front of people he didn’t take any type of charge to help her so that’s was my feeling that he saw it as okay because he probably was used to either his mother or someone in his family being treated that way and he had no masculinity more. Femininity in him that he couldn’t go over there and grab them and say stop hitting this woman. Didn’t matter if she was related to him or not so sometimes I think young boys need to be raised if they don’t have a father image of a male image around uncle something teaching him to be more masculine and protective of us that makes women feel feminine. I don’t know I’m just saying LOL.
BW have more practice submitting to wm and it working in their favor(work, jobs, gov’t assistance, financing for businesses). In a lot of ways, black men have made a name for themselves among the sistas as being non-trustworthy so our defenses are up. I cannot submit if my guard has to be up. But this is the same thing w Black men. Somehow w a white woman, they know how to be gentlemen. They know how to plan a date. They know how to lead with their finances.

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People can shirk their responsibility in all of this which is just cowardice, but every day you can always choose to REALLY wake UP and fight with a Warrior like me or someone else to Help Save Yourself, Humanity, and our Mother Earth.

Truth, Spirituality (nothing to do with the psyop known a religion or the new age cult), shedding your childhood trauma, becoming a mature adult, and then taking responsibility for yourself HAS to be done.

I know it’s hard because the evils control us, but it HAS to be done. If we all start to do it, this war WILL BE OVER. We have the POWER to stop them, but you have to play your part.

The key is learning who you are with everything else stripped away. Truly look in the mirror.

Learn how to love and respect yourself and then help others. If we all help one another, that’s sharing the workload.

It’s our negative energy they feed off of. So long as we aren’t United and Strong, they can control us. We need to be United and Strong and FIGHT BACK by taking ACTION, NOT just accept what is going on. This is NOT a movie!!!

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The evils use money as a WEAPON. Money shouldn’t be used to judge others by their WORTH. Anyone who thinks this way is controlled by the evils and is harming Humanity. Yes we need it in THEIR system, so that’s why you need to break FREE from their evil MATRIX.

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They want you to NEVER grow up and fight them. They want you waiting for someone or something ELSE to save you so they have free reign to kill us while you wait, wait again, wait some more until YOU ARE DEAD.

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