How men are abused by women

I’m going to detail how men are abused by women.

I do NOT believe this is Natural by any means.

I’m still not sure if the evils have mind controlled females to act this way. I’m editing my text now… After everything I’ve read, this is VERY serious and yes I believe the evils have definitely MIND CONTROLLED these many women in many countries, it’s not just one country.

It’s seems too coincidental that many (or the majority) are all acting the same way, and as I read these comments where I’m sure some are fake so my question is why, the men were in different countries.

The US of course
Canada
Australia
New Zealand
The UK, and I’m not sure about others.

And YES, the evils can make you behave any way they WANT. They have the tech to do that. I’m sure it doesn’t work on all women, but the ones who had previous issues and have a weak mind, yes.

I want you to know that after me replying to tons of these mens’ comments and then private messaging one guy what I wrote to him in the comment, I lost my nazi facebook account for sure. They are now demanding my biometrics which I WILL NOT GIVE THEM. I can’t PM anyone, I can’t post on my profile, NOTHING. I was in the middle of talking to two people earlier and now I can’t.

I am going to assume that this was because I was trying to wake up all of these MEN as to WHY this is all happening with women and the mafia government.

I was also trying to help some who are so depressed, they need alternative therapy.

You see what happens when you try to help people, THE EVILS TRY TO TAKE YOU DOWN.

WELL YOU MOTHER FUCKING EVIL PIECES OF SHIT, I WILL NOT GIVE UP. NICE TRY THOUGH!

FOR YOU ZOMBIES, GET THE FUCK OFF OF EVIL FACEBOOK ALREADY!!!

You are helping the evils to harm all of us when you use these EVIL PLATFORMS! Do you understand how dangerous this is????

Here’s my article with all of my evidence on what they have done to me since 2023. My playlist is in there too.

Here’s another article with evidence of them banning many people’s social media accounts.

Social media is evil, but I will say it’s evil if the evils are running it.

Reddit is evil, Link and Link.

Now back to this article

https://ourfreesociety.com/Odysee-The-Destruction-of-Men-Playlist

It broke my heart when I figured out in around 2021, that they were destroying the MALE SPECIES, and I assume this mainly started after WWII. sigh

And THIS is DIVISION between men and women, so when it comes time to kill off women, there won’t be a man in SIGHT. No more women, NO MORE BABIES. No love, caring, empathy, compassion, nurturing, etc.

I’m not saying men can’t have these traits, but it’s not how they were created, that’s the mother’s job.

The trauma these men have endured both from the PSYCHO WOMEN, the nazi cops AND the evil “legal” system which of course is fake and only meant to further the evils’ AGENDA, is HORRIFIC.

https://ourfreesociety.com/Ready-To-Wake-Up-Natural-Law
https://ourfreesociety.com/Odysee-Freedom-Playlist
https://ourfreesociety.com/definitions-of-words/

Saying that, I’m so sick of men blaming women for everything instead of seeing what’s really going on, and women are equally as LOW IQ believing in this feminist BS, and that all men are bad. WOMEN you are CLEARLY being used by the evils to TAKE THESE MEN DOWN! If I ever find out you are one of THEM, OH BOY!!! And yes, I’M A WOMAN!!!

This is WHY the Truth is sooooo important, because your behavior, decisions, and thoughts all DEPEND on what you believe to be TRUE and unless you AWAKE, everything you learn comes from the evils. That’s from their prison schools systems, the mafia government, the evil corporations that employ you, the fake news, entertainment industry and so on.

School System – the school system is a brainwashing indoctrination system that takes your child and brainwashes it to be a good little slave from SK until PhD.

Starting around the 1990s, most kids were brainwashed to believe they HAVE to get post secondary, and if they don’t, they aren’t worth anything or won’t get a job.

The more school you take, the more brainwashed you are, and the more I find that most people worship the evil mafia government, fake news, allopathy industry, etc.

My school playlist and quote posts on the prison school system.

Books – Link and link.

Unschooling book

What I want to really know is how men treated women prior to lets say the 1960s.

They say we couldn’t vote or get jobs or didn’t get paid the same or whatever. I want proof (other than the evils telling us) that this is all True, and I don’t think there’s proof.

We’d have to find books that talk about this prior to let’s say the 1950s.

At one point I started to wonder if women were at the top of the evil pyramid.

I can’t remember what I read or saw on a video that made me think JFC, what if it’s evil women hiding behind men!!!

These are all comments from MEN
(a woman posted advice on how to get evidence of what the psycho women were doing to them)

You are an angel Lesli. You have no idea how many men you are saving by posting this information for the world to see. I used to think that it was my job to take the abuse for the good of the family but it almost killed me doing this for so long. I finally got myself out of abusive relationships and took a personal vow of celibacy. It saved my life I have no doubt. I miss intimacy with women I love and enjoy being close with, I just can’t deal with the violent roller coaster that is female trauma. Women know they are protected at every turn and there is nothing they can do that will be used against them. Until this is fixed we will continue to have marriage numbers drop.
I can relate. My ex told me to my face that she could make me act any way she wanted me to act, in front of a room full of people, at any given time. Sad thing is, she was right! I had to learn how to stop and think before I react to things to quickly. Otherwise she always had me exactly where she wanted me.
To add to this, similar to what Lesli has already outlined about recording the abuse. Having gone through this be aware that this can also be used against you. If she continues to poke, poke until you respond loudly, (reactive abuse) if her voice suddenly softens rest assured that you are being recorded for her purposes to be used against you later.
Also photograph any damage to the home, vehicles and or your belongings, this seems to be a common occurrence.
On a brighter note, having been through this, law enforcement, the court system etc. is starting to catch onto these type of manipulation tactics, which I’m very thankful for but so much still needs to be done.
Snip… I have seen this happen to some of my friends , I tried to coach them exactly like this. They were so broken they couldn’t even comprehend any of it
I had one set me up and ruin my life 🤷🏻‍♂️ I went crawling back because I believed her when she told me she’d help me get the truth out, that it wasn’t as it was depicted to be. I was a dumbass 😔 I refused to believe the truth that was in front of me, a woman that sets you up? Isn’t interested in “saving” you. It’s used as a mechanism of control, to keep you obedient & reliant on her 😡 I finally saw the truth that was in front of me and I went ice cold inside, everything in me died. When I tell people she stole my soul? Lol please know I’m not embellishing, I mean that 👍🏻 I’m a hollowed version of a man that used to exist but now doesn’t have anything left to give, it’s a blessing and a curse to know the truth of it all.
My wife had 5 affairs. Likely more. Each of the five were during very prosperous times so she came after the money..to share with the paramours because not one of them had any.
Ultimately after 32 years and 4 kids she divorced me and took 80% of our assets and moved to a different state to marry a man she’d been seeing in another state when on trips to see her family.
She was treacherous and made wild accusations etc. In the end I’m starting from scratch.
Put a hash mark for another man Who bit the dust in the evil family law regime in TN.
I wish I knew this before I left. No matter how much evidence piled up I couldn’t believe i had children and slept beside someone that hated me for no logical reason at all
I was told cause I don’t have video or witnesses, my testimony would not be credible. But in the same breath, my lawyer said it would be the other way if she spoke about it. Now I’m paying for defense lawyer only cause a narcissist is pissed cause I left her and tried taking the kids. The system isn’t just flawed, it is corrupt.
Sadly, I had all of this against her. I even had her out of the house and the kids with me. She was charged with domestic violence in the presence of minors. The judge said regardless, the kids are better with their mother, standard answer. I had to leave the house.
yep I was a self parent single parent for seven years raise two babies from formula my children could speak four languages before they start preschool and then the mother wants to fucking family tax benefit and all hell she transferred. She put my signature on something. Transfer the children into her name and then she ended up with your fucking kids because fucking she claimed violence and there wasn’t any there’s no evidence of it and the children didn’t even do any evidence during the court case. She beat the shit out of children because they’ve got put with her overnight and they kept saying they wanted to go home and they said her lawyer said they don’t cost their mothers at home so they want all my contact stopped like you removed them from me because I was accused of being being violent and I was a threat to the children she actually physically violent to the children. Department of child safety placed a child protection order and a domestic violence order owner they made the police put on her to protect the children from her but you leave them living with her. It’s fucking insane.
Yeah they try and get you to go off on them even following you to the bedroom pushing you in so many ways then when you don’t touch them they use false allegations and the system joins right in like a bird dog, there is no way out.andI remember she was with her flying monkeys and I was watching tv and she slipped up behind me and grabbed my hair and pulled up really hard from the hair along my neck line I know now it was an effort to have witnesses so when I got upset she could have her evidence. Only thing I didn’t get upset just told her that hurts. They will get a restraining order on false allegations and then try to bait you to meet with them watch out for that guys.
Thank you for putting that out there. Unfortunately, the women perpetrators aren’t interested in anyone else’s opinions.
I suffered for 24 years and became a completely different person by the end.
And I honestly think it will haunt me forever
I agree 💯 been through it hell and back
18years In a narcissistic relationship her mum being head grandiose narc,drug dealing gangsta granny,sister split personality disorder,and my ex being covert,things weren’t too bad for years I just put it down to the abuse she suffered at the hands of her family,I thought she broke the mold,she just covered it well,I didn’t know about npd until about a year ago then I could tick off every personality trait in my ex and her mother as being narcissistic,my exes mask slipped when she started working with her mum and developed an alcohol and cocain habit,they tried to ruin me got me arrested for abh and assisted suicide,started a smear campaign and telling my kids school I put her in a coma as soon as they had me arrested even though she had been induced into a coma because her liver had packed up then i had to take her mum to court to have my kids returned when the courts ruled the children were to return to my care she refused,ofcourse I won again but I was on bail pending further investigation so i couldnt go near the woman that had them, I won again and they gave her till the end of that day to let them return to my care that was after 6weeks,then when my ex came out of her coma with a new liver,they tried to say I attempted to murder her,I won eventually because I only had to remember what actually happened, the truth they had to remember there lies,all of them and they kept tripping themselves up on them then on the final court date that was supposed to be over 3days the 1st day they wanted to make a deal,no doubt because they knew they were going to be held in contempt of court,even though the court ruled in my favour I don’t feel like I’ve won,I’m single my kids have scheduled visiting with there mum my ex is probably on her 5th partner since about September when she came out of hospital and I feel like I may have cptsd from the ordeal,I now spot narcs straight away,I see the signs and read the bullshit and sometimes wish I didn’t know.
She’d get drunk at night and hit me when I was trying to sleep. Called the cops but she got arrested. When it came to court I said I wanted to drop charges but I wasn’t allowed to and got put in lockup! the morning of the next hearing and taken to court by the posse. They. must’ve thought I wouldn’t show up! Lol
That was the last 2 years of my life, and yes those cameras were the only thing that proved my innocence. Without them due to the bias of the system I was facing a long jail term.
They proved everything I was saying, and showed who the true abuser was, my wife.
True.
Often woman find things to blame the man for that is not true simply so she can justify in her own mind a reason for leaving him.
It’s like she works hard to find reasons where there is non.
She can even order alarm systems installed in her home and ask for visit restrictions even when there was no grounds for it.
She simply is a woman and she feels countable by nature so she try to work “safe” when she did something wrong.
If she did not do something wrong then she would not feel the need either to take such drastic steps when there was no threat to begin with.
And it almost always happens after the woman has left and she has found a new man, then the switch happens.
Then she tries to start the Justifying her stands to make herself believe she did the right choice.
Thankyou I am struggling to survive this system I’m a good man a good dad but the system refuses to listen
I hope that this stops happening to dads all over the world
It seems that they are trying to cause suffering to create control
Going through it now! She’s out to destroy me! I’m currently paying all her bills! Rent, gas, electricity, water, while paying her £300 a month on top! Living in a car! I’m sort of thinking pleading guilty only so they can put me down so I don’t have to worry about my situation! But hey! It’s about the kids! They don’t have a choice!
My ex was arrested for DV. Left bruises. Prosecuting attorney refused to prosecute.
Only abused women have ways out. Men are usually left behind untill it’s too late
Spot on. My recordings saved me from a serious prison sentence. She told the police all sorts of lies, including that I locked her in a room. I had dozens of recordings that proved that she was the abusive one and that I was locking myself in a room to save myself from her. I only wish I had bought some hidden cameras because audio recordings don’t really convey the full extent of what I went through. She used to hit herself repeatedly with her fists, hard enough to give herself black eyes and swollen cheek bones. That doesn’t come across on audio anywhere near as powerful as it would if it was on video. It was insane.
I spent 8 years in this kind of relationship, and the next 13 single, then blew my chance of happiness because of it. 💔😭
100% I went through this myself.
I had an aunt that would hit my uncle over and over but soon as he hit back, off to call the law. And who always was arrested? You guessed it, him.
Didn’t matter that he had witnesses. Now, this was back in the 1980’s so I’m hoping that has changed somewhat in the eyes of the law.Michelle – great, so this was happening even in the 80s. sigh
My ex learned well from her big sister, to walk into you until you put your hands up to stop and then you attached her.
All she had to do was say I pushed her. After kicking me hard enough to leave bruises on my legs in the shape of her foot print, a cut from her toenail requiring stitches, and punching me in the face 2 weeks out from having spinal cord surgery to prevent becoming a quad. The ring doorbell showed her trip over herself, our daughter watched her attack me and watched mom trip and fall. The ring camera was offline, I was unable to retrieve the video before it was erased, violating the initial order by the judge. I was intercepted by the police at a gas station who made sure their body cams were off (contradictory to their reports) threw me on the ground and cuffed me so tight it damaged both radial nerves bad enough I had to have surgery, then claimed I resisted arrest. I was released unable to work from the surgery, no place to live, career in jeopardy. She had everything dropped within 8 weeks. Bled me dry through the divorce, and is now working her next victim, stating that she tripped to my daughter who can’t wait to make the age where she can decide where she wants to reside, and learning from my experience by keeping logs, recording the name calling, and threats. Telling her therapist about what is really going on beyond the thin facade mom presents. This is only the readers digest version too!
I’m a survivor of this and fighting a DV case appeal when I called the police asking for help.
I have all the evidence, audio recordings, video, messages, and more nobody gave a shit, they just wanted to believe her lies. Happily divorced and financially seperated from her abusive and cheating ass.
Love this!! but then again if you end up doing this and beating the system as i did and justice prevails then the parental alienation begins to try and destroy the father/child relationship and the trauma that has on your children is an even bigger battle. Unfortunately some women’s thirst and desire for control and power over a man even years after separation won’t stop and the only way they can try and get back at a man is to alienate the children involved. The hatred of the father outweighs the love for the children in most cases and unfortunately it’s the kids who suffer and as they get older and work it all out they end up pushing the mother away so they never feel the love of two parent’s. Heartbreaking
Like me pushed me down the stairs with daughter in arms hit me with objects threaten to kill me on recording I have solid evidence and still there’s nothing they can do as I was told the marks bruises etc could of come from. Anywere, even now I’m having to fight to see my daughter after the death of my son, stay strong men, we need to start showing it happens both ways
Last summer this is what happened to me…
She deleted all the messages and photos while she had possession of my phone and recorded me attempting to retrieve it… had to go through a locked door.
She then told the cops I was hallucinating and she didn’t have my phone. (While I was outside with the cops she stashed it in the couch, she copped to that to her father)
All the people that could testify against her about the abuse, the drugs, and the phone… refuse.
By Golly you’ve got that right, especially the points in your 14th paragraph revolving around “pattern of instability”, as I still have over 1000 audio recordings showing exactly that, but the feminist court in Perth Australia rejected the golden evidence I’d painstaking taken, so it was all worthless!
Good post, I’m sharing it!
This almost is exactly what happened to me And I’m still suffering from it because after all the times I was arrested for nothing…it still affects my life financially and tough to see the kids because of the system but we’re finally getting along after 6 years. And I see my kids on a regular basis and I did and still do wear a bodycam every time I pick up my kids.
How does this work in a 1-party state where it’s a felony to record audio without notification?
Mine used to punch me in the face at night when I was sleeping. Wish I had thought to put a video cam in the room and recorded it.
I called the police when my wife hit me.i wouldn’t hit her back.they came out and laughed and made fun of me. Asked did the lil girl hurt me
I have experienced this very thing. I complained to the cops and they laughed and told me…”What ? You can’t handle one little woman ?”
So I literally moved halfway across the country to another state just to get away from my ex. I didn’t even tell my family that I was leaving. Once my brother spilled the beans on where I went, she still tried calling where I worked after she tracked me down and she began harassing me here.
Fortunately I had a lawyer here who would listen to my side of the story and sent her a cease and desist letter. I ended up cutting ties to my relatives in order to prevent my ex from getting my new phone number. It took a while finally be rid of the psycho.
Too late for me.
And yes, I was beghing for emergency accomodation too. But my kids could not visit or have meals with me there. Having no home suitable for my kids made things worse. In the end, my only refuge was becoming homeless.
It is a disgusting thing to live through and it utterly destroys the relationships between father and children.
Balances services MUST become available by law, immediately.
Well written. I had mountains of worthless evidence. The system wants to nail the man. It’s the One World Government agenda. If they remove men from the family the children grow up weak and confused which make easy targets for the government.
Police once showed up to my Husband and his ex-Wife’s house. The neighbours heard a heated argument. They saw he was bleeding from the head – she threw a lamp at him and admitted it. They pulled her aside and asked what he did to her. He was cuffed and spent the night in jail. Unfortunately the kids were there to watch.
I went through 17 years in the court system. Your post surely resonates with me. I wish I had known sooner
This is so spot on. Luckily I was able to prove my innocence. 6 1/2 years of court to follow I walked away with winning the divorce and assets and sole custody of our daughter. I’ve been single for 7 1/2 because I refuse to go back through it
Which is why I will forever remain single.
When all is said and done, the abusive woman is protected from both criminal and civil recourse from the man, by both society and the system.
Having had my personal information and evidence access remotely, I can’t agree more with backing things up to USB sticks and printing things copies
I couldn’t have written a more accurate narrative of my own accord, what I’m currently facing the after math of… if you are a father going through an abusive dynamic that silently controls behind closed doors, I encourage you to follow this advice without waiver. I initiated similar protocols, however, too late. Not long after, I was stunned to be living this exact nightmare. Unfortunately, once the “silver bullet” is released and sticks, there is very little to nothing you can do but exercise the steps to rebuttal. The system is not here to listen or reconcile. It’s to react, swiftly, with very little character narrative, historical evidence, or facts that actually support.
This is great advice! My heart goes out any father going through this. Just remember, the only thing you can do sometimes, is not give up. Often times, that is enough, at least until you get some momentum to pick yourself back up.
I’m also a person that went through this. It was only about nine months with a girlfriend, but it was absolutely hell. She wasn’t so much physically abusive but man she was certainly emotionally abusive. She didn’t seem to have a problem though lashing out at me physically although I will say she never did any real damage to me. But one night she was yelling and poking me in the chest for their finger. I lost my cool for a second I pushed her back. Not hard, but enough that I was really surprised that I did that because I don’t do physical . Like ever . That was enough. I was like this shit isn’t turning into an episode of cops. I told her I said we’re not going here and I left. She demanded that I come back and I refused. It actually took several more months to get her completely out of my life. That ended with a really nasty ending, along with a protection order. That’s what it took to get her out
It also depends on what area you live in, some areas will not listen to men, even with evidence , if you can’t get an arrest or even a judge to allow you to file , you cannot expose what was going on. To have multiple 911 calls and police presence but a refusal to even do a report for later on can happen and does. And people wonder why men are done
Unfortunately been there with that exact playbook and the system didn’t want to see my evidence at all. Refused in fact. Lost a house from it. Glad you’re educating other men on this scenario. I couldn’t have believed it possible until it actually happened to me.
Even then it may not matter. I had well documented instances of all this, and the judge still favored her and I was still the one arrested and charged(eventually dropped and she was never charged)
Protecting men against the misandric DV law not only help men but also women. In UK a young chap was falsely accused of rape then took his own life. A year later his mom consumed by grief took her own life too. Leaving only her sister living alone at home by herself. Will she survive the loneliness and the grief of a whole family nearly wiped out? Feminism destroy good women too.
A bullet fired accidentally
from the pistol
that she keeps
under her pillow.
Its 2026. If you have any faith left in the system as a man your gonna get found wanting bigtime. Build yourself up. A partner can very quickly morph into the NZ family court looshing your very essence. Stay clear.
Dealt with this for 10 years. Now she has no control over me she uses my son against me and damages him and I in the meantime.
Not my ex wife, she tried to call the cops to say I assaulted her when she had just assaulted me but I was the one who called them. They showed up, took one look at me bloody from her nails and with marks all over me the shape of her wooden hairbrush and took her away.
It’s too late for me. She had her backup guy in place. She’s the victim. Fourteen years of her verbal abuse and functional alcoholism. I stayed for my boys. She cheated multiple times. Everyone called me weak. I didn’t want to lose my family. They’re gone now. The silence is deafening. Everyone thinks I’m the bad guy. She moved on to another man. She lives a happy life with my children. She suffers no consequences. I am broken. I am so broken. I don’t want to go on anymore. Absolutely nobody will miss me. She made sure of that.
Unfortunately there are women who work in the courts who will refuse to even look at video evidence and press domestic violence charges against the man to protect women in these situations. They are so hell bent on harming the patriarchy they will break laws and cause our courts to be corrupt to do so. I appreciate your post but even with video evidence we have some awful humans who go into the courts for all the wrong reasons and in many cases there will be no justice for guys who are dealing with abuse. Honestly it’s just as likely they we’ll end up with charges than find protection from abuse within the courts.
I literally went to prison for two years over someone like this and never even touched her… Wild shit that happens all the time.
I honestly had a few chances to have her committed, but had a 9 month old baby ,what REAL MAN does that ? So I got past it only to have this bullshit nightmare pulled on me .4 years later barely know my 1 and only son
I had an ex that did these exact same things. She would beat me until I got tired of it and grabbed her wrist to restrain her. Then she say she was calling the police to tell them I put my hands on her. Well she wasn’t the first abusive woman I had been with. So I had her number. Her threat came to an immediate halt when she witnessed me raccoon myself and tell her ” go ahead. Call the police if you want to, because we are both going to jail now.” That was the last time she ever put her hands on me or threatened to call the police.
That’s how the system works in Columbia county 100%.
Women know this and use this system. You can just see it coming. Textbook toxic female friends group where one after another is discarding their man or filing for divorce with maximum financial benefits?
Is your woman part of a group like that? Prepare yourself. It’s always the same.
Exactly what happened to me, I had evidence and it was completely ignored and I went to prison and lost my kids
I’ve been through similar, and it’s not as straightforward as people think. When things get flipped, you can end up dealing with the consequences while the full story never gets looked at properly. The system isn’t perfect, and when it misses, it misses hard.
I had video proof of years of abuse. Text messages. Calls to the police.
I still went to prison because I defended myself after I was hit in the head with a bottle of tequila.
The system is broken.
I had my teeth punched out by my ex. She wrecked our home. Broke doors, punched and kicked holes in the walls. Never seen anyone so out of control in my life. I couldn’t even press charges because nobody believes a man can be abused by a woman. I believe she was trying to provoke me into putting my hands on her.
While I agree this is great advice, it doesn’t always work…I’ve had it all recorded, been the 911 caller, shown the cops all my bruises & the weapons she used…but they don’t care, if the woman can turn on crocodile tears and says you did anything to her even in self defense they still take the man to jail…there’s no money in locking up broke women, plus they know it’s a waste of time because most DA’s or states attorneys won’t prosecute women…even if they do they’re given the most minimal punishment possible while a man charged with the same thing for doing less will get a ridiculous sentence.
The juice isnt worth the squeeze any more. Honestly what a woman brings with a relationship isnt worth the possible loss or damage that she can and probably will bring. I love women and want a relationship, but experience and probability has shown me it is simply not worth even pursuing any more.
Not in River Falls, WI. The police refuse to look at videos, recordings, or listen to kids, or neighbors. Their policy is always arrest the man.
I have had two ex girlfriends attack me with knives, been chased and my back clawed up as I ran away, heaters and fans thrown at me. Women can be very violent, thank you for having the courage to speak up for men!!!❤️
From a woman – What about the toxic narcissistic abuse from the ex wives or soon to be ex wives.. the mental torment inflicted, the emotional,social media, and financial abuse.. the entitlement that the courts always side with.. parental alienation and associated abuse.. emasculation and even paternity fraud..etc etc …. It doesn’t have to be physical to be the same violence and abuse that these narcissistic women inflict on the men…. When will the laws chance to support men.
I was beat by a woman. Knocked out teeth and a bridge with a perm back injury, over a year and a half, by a woman who was arrested 20 years in the past for domestic battery.
When I reported, a female officer just rolled her eyes. When I reported after the fact, another female officer said photos, videos and/ or dated journals are not evidence.
But, she was charged for dog abandonment the year after she bailed on her family and dogs.
Course, the judge dismissed the case.
ZERO accountability
Still have two of the dogs. I sat with the other three at their last moments.. nope, she never checked on the dogs she had for a decade.
This can’t be advice in Australia, was In this situation but not with physical abuse towards me, it was the more usual female behaviour like the gas lighting, coersive control, financial control- stealing money from our business and my own wages from our business that she then told lies about our business only being hers even though I had the proof in the bank statements. I had to slowly gather the evidence and when I supplied that evidence she had the Queensland police turn up at my house, and turn the DVO that I put on her for my safety onto me and changed me for stalking. It doesn’t matter how you try prove what is happening, if your male your screwed.
I feel this, 1000%….especially the part about grabbing her wrists to stop the assault on me, ya …I went to jail. System is definitely broken. Lost everything, now have to deal with rebuilding and I have an assault charge on my background. Haven’t seen my son since June 2025…don’t even know where they are ..cps is also broken….they tell me she is in fear of her safety and the safety of the kids so, they won’t even help me reconnect with my son. Worst part is, 6 months before that, she called cops and they actually took my side and I didn’t have her arrested because the kids would have gone into foster care….and two of them had already been in the system and one was assaulted so, I chose to not press charges. The town I got arrested in, would not contact the neighboring town to review basically, the exact same incident and I was arrested. I still can’t wrap my head around it, and the worst part is …why do the children have to suffer. It’s gonna be years before I rebuild and have enough money to get a lawyer and take this through the court system, just so I can have some sort of visitation with my son.
You cannot record anything. This was also flipped as me being controlling. I had an observable camera in my bedroom to prevent abuse.
She took the camera and handed it to the police, as it was in her bedroom (we had separate bedrooms but as it was our house, all the rooms were her rooms).
So if you try to prove you’re being abused, it’s evidence of abuse. If you can’t prove abuse didn’t happen, you are an abuser.
I had one occasion I filmed her abusing me and called the police. She also called the police, claiming I was abusing her.
2 police officers arrived. The officer interviewing me said she claimed I abused her. I showed him my mobile phone video footage and he went back downstairs and said no abuse occurred.
But nothing on her claim and my barrister said you can’t show that in court because you are shouting to leave me alone and get out of the room.
Trust me, if it had been the other way around, I’d have been arrested.
Courts dismissed my journals and therapy as hearsay and allowed her family as evidence even though they weren’t there. Now her and her boyfriend are sitting in the home I was the sole provider for, and my daughters are constantly getting beat up on by his son while the “adults” are paying no attention to them. Fuck the courts, I ain’t paying her or them. I go to jail I will call it a vacation
Michelle – LOL, he acts as if he had no say in picking these psychos.
i went 26 years under a miserable narco woman….then 6 years single…only to fall again for a super narco woman for 2 more years of sever abuse…i just walked 3 weeks ago…i am going to become a hermit for the rest of my life….
Yep. It’s sad. The criminals have the upper hand now because government has gotten way too big and they’re way too involved in every day life. That’s why I live alone, in the woods, away from people. Can’t trust no one now days.
My ex tried to kill our 4 day old baby and myself, all because while she was ignoring the crying baby and verbally abusing me, I picked the baby up. She tried ripping the baby out of my arms, I warned her and defend both of us when she didn’t stop. She then tried throwing us down the stairs. She was eventually arrested for DV but I defended and protected her. Then the abuse got worse. 2 years later I’m charged after defending myself again. I ended up doing jail time because of her lies and abuse. Men if she abuses you do not defend her, do not tell the judge “I am not scared of her”. Take a page out of the woman’s play book, “she tried to kill me, I am scared for my life and the life of my children. I want her out of the house and a full restraining order. The only way I’ll agree to her seeing the kids is with supervised visitation”. Do not get her an attorney. Do everything you can to testify against her. The real number of DV cases commited against men by women is unknown because so many go unreported. If the true number came out it would be close to 40-50%. Men need to report the abuse we are put through.
I went through an abusive 1st marriage. Had the police called on me twice. I was almost 1300 miles away from family, and in TX, IF I’d have received a 3rd charge – my fault or not – I’d have been sent straight to the pen. My family sent me a ticket for Greyhound, I packed everything I could bring, and left.
(After the 2nd chg – a falsified one – because in TX the alleged ‘victim’ has to only have a “report of pain” – I was sent to a mandatory ‘anger management’ course.) There was a guy in the class with me who was arrested and charged even though HE was the one who was being assaulted by his live in girlfriend in HIS apartment as he was trying to get away from the situation! HE was the one that called the police! They arrested him simply for being the man involved in the situation. After that 2nd time, I was walking on eggshells every waking moment till I was able to board that bus, afraid that she’d get pissed at me for something and make up another charge in order to get me put away. The memories of that time still weigh heavy upon me.
As a victim, I applaud the call for awareness. I was on the phone with 911, when she hit me in the back with a hammer, then threw me face first into a wall, and landed in a box of glass that I broke with my knees, and I Still ended up almost catching felony charges, even though I was covered in bruises, just because there was alcohol involved (she was so drunk she was almost totally incomprehensible) and I was a man.
Thank you and yes i’ve been there ,advice from police distance yourself from the woman ,good advice as if they even get the slightest injury trying to hold them away ,your guilty ,anyway distance yourself and then get charged anyway ,locked up for 6 hours and seven months in court to clear my name … police said they have ti act ,any accusation from a woman its arrest first let the courts figure it out ,she was never charged with making a false statement to police and never paid me for my lawyer after blaming neighbours for calling ,they weren’t home ,complete set up ,then threatens to send me to gaol for 2 years if one of my friends doesn’t transfer her 50 grand ,
100%, Protect yourself gentlemen. Document, record, and identify! When you except the truth the narcissistic agenda plays out like a story, very predictable. Make sure you secure the truthful narrative (documented) and any attempted smear campaign, and BS slander is brought into the light and you end up with an irrational person massively heightened because they can’t control or manipulate anything. This makes it very easy to show the real them 👌.
Good men need to protect themselves, before waiting for help to arrive. The whole feminist movement is the abusive relationship of western society, perpetrated against the good men who built, and continue to build and maintain, everything
Longstory short I had years of being abused mentally and physically.. I never layed a hand on a female an never will.. But 1year an 7 months ago I said enough, an after working day after day straight from the hurricane clean up, I was tired wore out an that’s when I find out my ex-wife was cheating, I had only layed down for just a few hours before my next shift was supposed to begin an she accidentally played a song on the hub thing in the bedroom where I was sleeping.. I woke straight up from a dead drained sleep got up an walked to the living room where she was at she didn’t see me walk in an as I approached her I seen her screen on messenger.. it startled her when she noticed me, an I asked her about the song, she just laughed an clicked the side button on her phone an layed it down an said it was a video on Facebook..She kept a lock on her phone an I knew that if side button is hit within a few seconds that it would still be unlocked.. So I grabbed it quickly an with me being taller I held it above my head as she proceeded to scream an hollar an hit me demanding I give her phone saying I can’t prove anything, so I pulled my phone out with my other hand an started recording.. she thought I had called a friend down the road an didnt know I was recording.. I ran to the bedroom grabbed my keys an put both phones in one hand mine still recording an opened the door to leave an as I started to walk out she jumped into the door to prevent me from leaving.. The house was built in early 1900 so the door was solid wood.. I screamed at her that I would put her MF head through the GD window at the time that my wrist was getting crushed in between the door an jam.. I tried to pull it out as she proceeded to push harder.. I never laid a finger on her I just wanted to leave..I did pry door open an got in the truck an drove down the road an called the police.. I took my phone an recorded as much of the evidence of her cheating an adultery before the police came to me an 1 went to her.. As I was recording the phone locked, she had a smart watch an locked her phone an either using it or her laptop deleted everything… but she didn’t know I was recording.. an recorded her messeges an pictures an videos..
She went to jail that night, I got protective order an was able to get my stuff out.. I didn’t have anywhere to go so I just put my stuff in a storage unit an started staying in my truck..
Doctor visit after visit 3 different specialists it was almost a year an the pain I was in was finally getting fixed.. I had multiple tears tendon an ligament a Subsheath dismemberment TFCC tear an the cartlidge at the ulnar was mangled..
I had her charges nole processed in court, even though I went thru hell she did work hard doing online college for years, an I had the choice..
The night she got arrested she also got fired from her job because of the incident.. she had another job she was going to less than a month from then that would be for her degree.. If see was to be convicted of all this she would lose her license, degree, and new job..
I’m not a bad person an I just hope she took it as a lesson, because my lawyer had all the evidence an said I could take her house her car everything, an I told them I just want my stuff an that’s it no memories to linger clean slate..
I am way past all that but I am F#CKED mentally because of everything, because all that crap with her my dominant wrist right handed is screwed up an I still struggle with my wrist lost alot of things an alot of my trust in people.. but since then I got blessed with a home I am remodeling, I’ve been on the verge of losing it off an on.. I got switched from short term disability to Longterm an I’m still struggling mentally because I lost my job switching to long-term.. an doctor hasn’t released me officially back to work, but said find a job that isn’t strainuous on my wrist.. an it’s still pending for next month of whether or not I get a check or try to find a job I can do with my wrist this.. way..
Anyways it’s been hell
My partner had video evidence of locking himself in a room to get away from his abusive ex when she was drinking. Also tying to get away in his car and she’s on the car ripping his wipers off, and all social services said at that point is, we can look at you for neglecting your children, all because they were on the other side of the door with her or in the house as he was trying to escape. The courts weren’t interested in his videos, she had taken photos of injuries when she’s fallen drunk and said he did it ( even when he had the original messages saying how she had received these injuries) yet again they weren’t interested. The judge said if he didn’t agree to the fact that “they were both as bad as each other” he would find a judgement solely against him because he had seen pictures. The whole system is corrupt and geared up to protect women especially those that can manipulate the system with the lies. 😢
This is exactly what happened to me. Countless black eyes, but lips, broken back (pushed down steps), scratched that deep that they went into the white flesh and would take months to heal etc etc – yet she managed to play the victim and was protected by a system geared against men. I even had video footage, but that apparently meant nothing (as I didn’t ask if I could record her when she broke my nose). Sickening really
That is exactly spot on, protect yourself. Even if she’s been arrested for a previous assault 2 DV, if there’s no witness you will go to jail and have your life destroyed!
Camera footage has to be approved as relevant to be entered in as evidence, most times it automatically is excluded because of one objection or another. The fact that he recorded will be used to paint him as a manipulator who just cares about winnning. Happened to a friend of mine who recorded on police and child services advice. JS it is not the failsafe you think it is.
My measuring stick for a good cop? Get called to a domestic, she claims he put hands on her, yet he’s all scratched and bruised up. She’s taken away in handcuffs. Because few men are going to get or look beat up unless they allow it. Inconvenient fact, but men are typically physically able to stop a woman from harming them. Automatic assumption the man is the aggressor is the realm of the lazy or bad cop.
Thank you so much for hearing the quiet cries that I only thought I could hear I am a big guy 6’1” I have defended myself very well except for my ex-wife she could destroy me with words and manipulation making me feel crazy I have not nor would I ever hit a women but yes I have been pushed to yelling because of I feel so crazy I finally feel heard.
Thank you thank you thank you
This is exactly what happened to me over 14 years of marriage
Michelle – he’s the only one who admitted that he played a role in this. Not one man said he was also responsible, not because he did anything to her, but he chose her and stayed with her even after the signs were there.
I wish I would have known this. My life would be so fucked up right now. I let it happen
Michelle – SMH I am upset about the first part, but the second part, he is doing exactly what the evils want him to do. No one should ever be alone the rest of their lives. It’s not healthy, I know.
The above happened to me twice…sought help from the DV services and was laughed at, ridiculed and shamed. One of the times I was still on the phone to 000, barricaded in a bedroom and I was still led away in cuffs.
Been single for quite some time now, my house is peaceful and quiet. Haven’t had an argument with another human for years now. Haven’t had to compromise my self or my principles for the sake of another. I haven’t had to put up with intolerable toxic friends, I do what needs to be done when it needs doing, not at the behest of some nag. I play lots of golf, ride my motorbike nearly everyday…eat what I want, drink what I want and funnily enough…my dogs don’t seem to mind one bit.
And the women who approach me in life are incensed that there is no reality where I will let them near my life in any capacity other than in a casual manner.
Life went from a horror shit show to down right fucking awesome…I am the envy of many a male friend/associate. Monday mornings are my favourite…tales of two days of morning golf, afternoon bike adventures and evenings of beer, pizza, sports or sci-fi tv…the looks I get from the boys speak volumes of how women in this world treat men.
If your unhappy chaps, take the plunge…I can’t recommend this lifestyle more than by stating…heaven is a place on earth and there ain’t one nagging bitch in it.
Michelle – Good father
You just explained my Ex/Childrens mom, I never won custody in civil court even after she was arrested for assaulting myself and my oldest child who wasnt even hers and eluding police for 3 days, I didn’t have an attorney and she jumped states after she got her slap on the wrist from the DA with an ankle monitor for a month, long story short Ex started her cycle again with some other idiot and my older daughter was smart enough to see through her BS and she ended up coming back to me at 17, I’ve stayed in my kids lives regardless of what they’re mom has done because thats what Dad’s do… eventually my youngest 13 will have her say and leave with me and her sis, no the system does not work in our favor but love does. For any other fathers out there struggling through something like this, stay in your children’s lives as much as possible, they won’t forget it.
What’s funny is if a guy plays head games it’s literally still classed as DV, but when a woman does it…….
13 years of abuse. Not physical but mental and other things. Free of that now thankfully. Yes narcissism is a real problem
Dealt with this for 10 years. Now she has no control over me she uses my son against me and damages him and I in the meantime.
abusive women are the master gas lighters!

Wow, I almost hit 100 men and I worked on this (responding to them too) for at least 3-5 hours. Some I didn’t copy because they were just one word or one short line, no story.

Just SHOCKING to me. I want to investigate this further.

Clearly this has been going on for a long time. I heard that many mothers were crazy when I was still dating back in 2006/7, or a bit earlier, but they never told me all of this. My son’s father’s wife was like this. She even tore the hair out of my head once and did everything in her power to stop my son’s father and I from having an amicable relationship.

I didn’t want her anywhere near my son, but I had no choice. His father was fucked up too. POS. They force your children to see the INSANE PARENTS.

I don’t know how Truthful some of the comments were because maybe the abuse started 10 years in and they just say it was the whole marriage.

I handed out my alternative therapy link many times. I hope some of them will want to heal. SMH None of them are awake. They barely dissed the mafia government. sigh Even after being thrown to the WOLVES by the mafia government they still defend them.

Worshiping the mafia government is the slave mentality, and probably some of the reason why they stayed with these TOXIC FEMALES for so long. SMH Some did try to escape, but most seemed to wait years. No different than women who stay in an abusive relationship and men feel they are more of the protector.

The only way to win this war is with US TOGETHER NOT SEPARATELY!

People can shirk their responsibility in all of this which is just cowardice, but every day you can always choose to REALLY wake UP and fight with a Warrior like me or someone else to Help Save Yourself, Humanity, and our Mother Earth. ACTION!

Truth, Spirituality (nothing to do with the psyop known a religion), shedding your childhood trauma, becoming a mature adult, and then taking responsibility for yourself HAS to be done.

I know it’s hard because the evils control us, but it HAS to be done. If we all start to do it, this war WILL BE OVER. We have the POWER to stop them, but you have to play your part.

The key is learning who you are with everything else stripped away. Truly look in the mirror.

Learn how to love and respect yourself and then help others. If we all help one another, that’s sharing the workload.

Build alternative communities based on FREEDOM and Truth. Do it together outside of the evils’ mafia governments. It’s the ONLY way.

https://ourfreesociety.com/community

It’s our negative energy they feed off of. So long as we aren’t United and Strong, they can control us. We need to be United and Strong and FIGHT BACK by taking ACTION, NOT just accept what is going on. This is NOT a movie!!!

Both parts have to be done AND people have to STOP WORSHIPING MONEY.

The evils use money as a WEAPON. Money shouldn’t be used to judge others by their WORTH. Anyone who thinks this way is controlled by the evils and is harming Humanity. Yes we need it in THEIR system, so that’s why you need to break FREE from their evil MATRIX.

This war can ONLY BE WON BY US, not some deity or Human. That’s where the psyop religion comes in – SALVATIONISM.

They want you to NEVER grow up and fight them. They want you waiting for someone or something ELSE to save you so they have free reign to kill us while you wait, wait again, wait some more until YOU ARE DEAD.

Here’s my alternative therapy page. I hope you read and bookmark it. https://ourfreesociety.com/alternative-therapy-courses/

There’s NO SHAME in admitting you have issues. WE ALL DO.

It’s when you don’t care and don’t work to rid yourself of them (this doesn’t happen overnight, it’s a work in progress) that I have a problem with that because you refusing to not do the work affects ALL of us, not just YOU.

With tough Love

Michelle
The Our Free Society Warrior Alliance
I hope you learned something.
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To build our own Supply Network – https://ourfreesociety.com/the-our-free-society-supply-network

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The definition of insanity is blind obedience and doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

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